Hello there, my name is Heather and as you can probably tell, I love dogs! I personally feel that no dogs should be abused or treated with cruelty. That being said, I would like to share my experiences.
RESCUE DOG SPUNKY:
The dog's name was Spunky and I was 8 years old. He was the sweetest and funniest dog. He was well mannered; house broken and had showed no signs of being aggressive until... I pet him while he was eating. My sweet puppy turned around in blind rage and removed a chunk of my lip. My brother also experienced the wrath of Spunky when he took a large bite out of his cheek while my brother was eating lunch. Luckly, both of us healed with stiches but the rehoming of Spunky in our home was unsuccessful and he was sent back to the shelter.
Would we have done things differently if we had known Spunky was food aggressive? Absolutely but it was an unknown factor. That is until it was too late. My heart still mourns for that little dog and wish it could have gone differently for him. He had hidden trauma that was not his fault nor is it the fault of any rescue, but it is a reality.
RESCUE DOG LUIE:
It was my first time living on my own and wanted a companion, a dog. I had other friends who had adopted dogs with great success. It was suggested by those around me that you should only ever adopt and never get a puppy from a breeder so as to help a dog out of a shelter. It seemed like the right thing to do. I would go almost weekly for months to my local shelter and look at all the dogs (this is before you could see them online!)
Finally, I thought I found the perfect dog. He was a little black lab mix with the most adorable face and goofy smile. I filled out the paperwork and the shelter sent me on my way.
He was a wonderfully sweet dog who was always kind and loving. However, there were issues...
I bought several training books but never did the research on the breed or think about how much the breed would play apart in his natural tendances. I didn't know and thought a dog was just a dog. There had never been anyone in my family or friend group with any clue on the differences between dog breeds and I was simply unaware.
This led to a complete learning curve as my dog tore apart and ate almost literally.... my whole apartment. I was walking him 4-6 times a day and he still had energy to spare. My life had been completely turned upside down. After one year of having Luie, my whole world revolved around his behaviors and was unable to control this now very large dog in a small apartment.
I was able to find and rehome him to another owner who had a home with a large backyard, but it broke my heart and I felt like such a failure. This would be my last dog for a long time. There was such a yearning to have a dog but felt intimidated by dog ownership.
BREEDER SHOPPED, LUCKY:
I wouldn't get another dog until my children were two years and four years old. This time, I had been researching for about three years about temperament, genetics and training. This time I really wanted to avoid putting myself or my family through the heartbreak of needing to remove or rehome a dog.
My husband loved the Bernese Mountain Dog breed, and I loved the Poodle but after talking with some very experienced breeders, determined a Bernese Mountain Dog would be a better option as I learned the maintenance and grooming of the Poodle coat requires a lot of work.
We looked at several breeders and found Lucky, a 12-week-old puppy. He is everything I had been searching for. The most wonderful temperament, far beyond what I was ever expecting. So gentle, calm and seriously, the best dog. He is a wonderful addition to our family.
For me, adoption would have been a good option if I had done any sort of research. My experience with shopping was only better because I did the research and knew exactly what I wanted. That alone is half the solution when finding your perfect addition to your family.
Both adoption from a shelter and shopping from a breeder are valuable options depending on your needs.